Time flies! It has been 3 months after my last entry. I was so lazy to blog and I might as well don't even care about blogging anymore. But today, I feel like doing so. Getting back to my usual routine after doing something different for 3 months. That was some thing I have not done before and finally I felt how many people feel. The meaning of love and losing.

This, as everyone knew it, was not as easy as anyone can see from the outside, being in a relationship is totally different matter of being with friends amongst us. Because we care for our love ones, things will ended up into a quarrel if we cannot get a common understanding. But for friend, even if we think our friend has a different point of view we just take it as, 'well I guess that you'... Something that shouts YOU! (Thank Ms Ris)

Other than that, trying to intrude into your partner's world is another challenge we have to face. Everyone live in a different background if not so different way of thinking or idea. It might be OK for you to think this way, but it might not for the other party. Learning to give is important, learning to take is well more important. In order to give we must first learn how to take. When we gave too much and never felt the return the relationship will not work. So we have to understand how the other party had given in in and we should let them know that we are giving in, order for them to know.

I realize this but easy said then done. I'm still learning...

Also, Changing for someone you love will be difficult too. We have been living for more then a decade as what we are, including minor changes little by little, time after time realizing slowly, bit by bit then we change a little bit at a time until what we are today. Someone that we think this is what we suppose to be. But because of someone we love, we wanted to change for someone, to suit into the other world. Having Mars to crash into Venus. It will be devastated by difficulties. I tried and failed.

After attempts, giving up may seem easy but there is a price to pay. leaving someone is also not an easy task to take. is like suffering from losing a family member which has pass away or throwing away something still in very good working condition which you really need it very much. The feeling of heart pain is undeniable. But because we cannot accept the way we think from the first beginning, tried to change but failed and the only solution to this is end it up. We have no choice but to accept the fact.

After all this is another turning point of life, live and get on. We have more challenge ahead putting down the past but not to forget it. Its a new knowledge gain. Learn from our mistake and it will be the better next time round. Instead of crying at the spilled milk, understand how it was being spilled and make sure we don't do it again.